Create your own definition of ‘queer’
There is no definitive way of explaining ‘queer’ – that’s part of the beauty of exploring and finding your own connection to the idea of queerness or being LGBTQ+. In this activity, you’ll have some time to think about what ‘queer’ means to you, and how understanding the expression of it can help you affirm your own LGBTQ+ identity.
Here’s how other LGBTQ+ teens are defining their queerness:
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“Queerness is to be beautiful. Queerness creates a supportive group of open-minded people. Queerness is normal.”
- Serena, she/her/hers, 16, TX
“I would define it as being different in the best way possible. It means you are open to a different kind of love, different from what we’ve been taught. There’s a power to the word because the people who use it are challenging the norms and being who they are.”
- Ivy, she/her/hers, 17, AZ
“I would define it as being your authentic self and expressing who you love. Going against the societal norms to do what you feel is right.”
- Atlas, he/him/his, 19, MO
“My queerness is an inherent part of me, and I wouldn't be me without it. I sometimes try to think of "me" without queerness, and I come up with nothing. There is no me without queerness.”
- Glenn, they/them/theirs, 16, AZ
“It is feeling love for anyone I may choose. It is being strong and resilient.”
- Erin, she/her/hers, 17, KY
What to do next
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